Aggressive???? Updated

Hello Ladies

So I was dating this guy who I got into an argument with and asked him to give me a Yes or No answer to a question I ask him. Only for him to respond back to me saying that I was being aggressive and it a turn off for him. So I told him sorry and bye. The truth is I am tired of men that always want to leave things vague or only when it works for best for them. Was I too ash with my respond to him?