Stop Trying & It’ll Happen, They all say 🤔🙄

Well after not getting my BFP after a year and a half of trying, I decided to “stop trying”. Stop all the temping, the ovulation tests, pretty much everything and let nature run its course. I stopped in October and it still has not happened. So now here I am again, about to start back up doing everything. 😩

It just sucks because at my OB appointment last May she said that she didn’t understand why I wasn’t getting pregnant, as I have regular cycles and I ovulate around the same time every month. So, the next step is to get my SO tested before she does any other testing with me.

So, quick question for you all who had to get your husbands or boyfriends tested, did they just go to a urologist and request one to be done or did they have to go through their primary care provider to get a referral to the urologist? Every time I search for a sperm analysis in google for my area, it keeps providing fertility clinics but I’m not quite sure we should be seeing a fertility doc quite yet? If anyone has any suggestions or could help me, that’d be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance 😘