Everyone keeps telling me “you are so small” 😔

Everyone keeps saying my belly is tiny and tell me to eat more and ask if baby is growing enough! It’s definitely upsetting because baby is currently 25th percentile for weight and measuring just a bit behind. I have a growth scan next week to see if she’s still growing and catching up or if there is an issue. I know people don’t know what is going on and aren’t trying to be offensive, but it’s hard to take! I also don’t feel like I look THAT tiny! It’s my first baby. 32 weeks today...do I look that small?!