What dose it mean when, he eats you out but doesn’t put in a lot

of effort to get you off? When he gives you 30 minutes to finish. When he tries to put his penis inside before going down on you to say oh now I can’t it went in. Or when you say you can use your finger too and he rubs your clit like, get my g-spot And lick clit at the same time. Or lube your finger and get my ass. Well, to top it all off he cums before I do so I’m left to finish by my self. Tips on how to make him more comfortable doing it. Or what are things I can do to make it worth eating me.