We are LDR, 5 years together. We have to be moved in together by May, no other choice for certain reasons. We could be moved in a lot sooner however if he would only clean up what he needed to. I adore this man and the mess that needs to be cleaned is linked with depression and so I get that this is his personal journey he needs to go through, but I miss him so much and he could be with me faster if he cleaned faster.. I mean I still have crap to do too so I dont have much right to talk there but I could be with him within a week or two... I'd haul ass cleaning and packing if I knew I could be with him right away.. it isnt his fault that I'm impatient but I just... I wish he would work on it more.. I feel like he barely does rn and he misses me just as much and so we both are kind of spiraling... we are each others support network... this is all so hard.. God give me patience and strength...