Okay, I love my mother in law, but she gets on my nerves!!! She works a lot, I get it. But she asks if she could take my son, almost always I tell her no. And when I give in and tell her yes, this is what happens. She asked two hours before if she could take my son, okay, I get him ready and I get to her house to drop him off and she tells me she's too tired!! Like this lady always has an excuse. I know my son is not her responsibility but this lady should not ask to watch him if she's never gonna watch him. And this is why, I almost always tell her no. It doesn't bother me that my son don't ever spend time with his grandma, what bothers me is her asking all the time knowing damn well she's just gonna change her mind!