Her feelings

No. I don’t get upset about him touching his own body. It’s his body to touch as he pleases

Yes it makes me uncomfortable because I wonder if they are thinking of someone else while doing it.

Hasn’t happened in my relationship yet. But I think it would definitely hurt my feelings if and when if does happen.

My husband and I are so hyper-aware of each other now this couldn't happen, but we had an issue when we were first together I would come home from work wanting to get frisky with him but because of my late hours he misassumed whether or not I would be interested before I got home and wouldn't be able to play again. Part of why he didn't try anyway was passive aggressive feelings of neglect. If you or your partner arent having your needs met you should talk about it with each other