Thinks he can do whatever - HELP

So my husband told me that he is grown and he’s going to do what he want to do. He said that if he wants to leave the house - it’s nothing I can do about that, he said if he wants to cheat - it’s nothing I can do about that. He was like just because we’re married he’s still going to do him.

Now I don’t know how to take this. I’ve been with him for 3 years now and he’s making it hard for me to be with him any more. I really can’t say anything to him without him shutting down on me. I’ve been respecting him but I feel like he don’t respect me. I’ve tried talking to him, it doesn’t work. He always thinks I’m complaining🙄 AND he said I need to go see a shrink cause I’m too emotional.