I love my husband
(warning: long rant post)
But I also really want to punch his face. We haven't had an actual weekend together since I've been pregnant (I'm 18 weeks now) and today was the first day he's had off that we have had to spend with just the 2 of us. And we have been arguing all. day. long.
I love the man, really I do, but today it's like he opens his mouth and stupid is all that comes out. I'm not sure if it's pregnancy hormones or what but I've seriously had it with him today. He refuses to admit he's wrong in any of our arguments and has somehow managed to turn everything back onto me instead of taking responsibility for his actions and things he's said. He's driving me NUTS!
The last argument today was if we should turn his office into the nursery which is what I think we should do, and up until today he's been soooooo against it. Would totally shut me down over it. Today I finally lost it and tore him a new one and was like look the baby needs a place to be because its not staying in our room past 4 months. And even then we still need a place to put it's things. And he would argue and say our room has plenty of space (no. It really doesn't.) We can barely fit a bassinet in here, and they can't sleep in those forever, which I don't think he realizes. So mid argument he goes "well, I never said we can't turn the office into a nursery!"
Uh. Yeah. You did. Many times. To other people too. And then he said that it was a "miscommunication". Like no, you were very clear that you did not want *your* office turned into the baby's nursery. We literally have no other rooms to use for a nursery as we live in a 1x1, and the office isn't even counted as a room in our apartment since it has no closet. It's literally a 9x8 room, that's barely big enough for a crib and dresser. I don't know where on Earth he expects the baby to go, but he is surely in for a rude awaking when this kid gets here.
End rant.
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