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So, I’m 16 and I’m 5’2”, I weigh in at 200 lbs (I don’t really look it though, most of it is muscle; I’m a cheerleader) as of today. I love my body but there are some parts that I don’t feel so confident about. It’s my upper arm and like the area around my armpit and my lower stomach. I guess what I’m getting at is how can I start feeling more comfortable with/confident about it?

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I think positivity (about yourself and other girls) is key. You could try looking at other plus size girls on Instagram and YouTube (not to compare yourself to them but to maybe catch their confident vibes or gain a new fashion style). Speaking of fashion, you could also try dressing up for yourself and having a blast looking like a cutie (like you already do). Then, maybe you could go out of your comfort zone. 
Like honestly, I felt the same way you did and never even expected to see myself wear heels, skirts, and even crop tops! But I felt more comfortable about all my “doughiness” 😂 after I’ve seen plus size girls (especially those with my body shape) wear whatever the fuck they want to.
But remember, confidence takes time to develop and embrace so don’t rush yourself to become confident overnight. These “problem areas” are not the only parts of you. Be your #1 cheerleader because you’ve earned it, girl!

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You have a ways to go with your body.  You are 16 by the time you are 18 your body will change and then again the older you get. Learn to love each stage of your life.  Areas that you look at as problem areas will not even matter in a few years. Love the transition you are making. If you can't live with it right now, just a few changes to your diet will make a big impact ie no eating after a certain time or removing sweet drinks.

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