Do you feel ready again?

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I know this is different for us all, but I'm curious about when you felt/feel ready to try again. I'm only a week and a half out from my loss and I feel like I've been processing really well. 
We felt our baby was a boy, so we gave him a name to make him more real to us. We have talked about him, who he could have been, how we would have loved him and continue to love him. Neither of us feels like we would be replacing him, because he lives in our hearts. 
We're waiting for my period before we try, but I almost feel the tiniest bit bad that I already feel ready. I want to be a mom and watch my husband become a father. I love our son and will keep him with me always, but I also want a family I can hold in my arms.

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I had a blighted ovum, never saw a heartbeat and always had a feeling it was too good to be true. Sure enough, found out at 7.5 weeks that my gut was right. I stopped bleeding on Thursday after taking cytotec last Friday the 15th and have my follow up tomorrow. I am ready to try again as soon as my cycle comes back, praying that it does actually. As awful and unfortunate as the situation is, it has made me realize that I am absolutely ready to be a mom ❤

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I feel ready and it's been a month since we miscarried. I'm scared however that I may miscarry again but I am hoping my fiancé gets out of jail so we can start trying and grieve for our little Jelly Bean.

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Really sorry for your loss ❤ Dont feel bad that your ready to try again..its only natural. I had a mc on 16th jan and within a week i was ready to start trying again. They say your more fertile after a mc and can get pregnant again before your period returns. Im still waiting for mine to return as its been 6wks and still nothing.. i was bleeding on and off up untill 4wks after mc so not sure if period was included in that or not 🤷‍♀️ and we dtd as thought had stopped 2wks after mc. I have done a couple preg tests and were negative.. very disappointing. But really hope it happens soon. Good luck and hope you get your 🌈 x

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I lost our son at 16 weeks in December. We had just found out he was a boy. It was so painful, I didn’t know if I ever wanted to try again. I didn’t want to love someone and never get to know them or raise them ever again. 
We had a funeral for him in January and that really helped me. Then right around Valentine’s Day I learned I was pregnant again. It was short lived as it was a chemical pregnancy. We were sad, but less attached to this pregnancy as we were only aware of it for 2 days.
But getting that second positive test again, and then getting my period made me realize I did want to be pregnant again. I do want to be pregnant again. I told my husband that I was sad I wasn’t pregnant and he cried. He didn’t think I ever wanted to be pregnant again, and I didn’t think I did either. 
But going through that experiment taught me that even though this has been difficult as hell, (and no one will ever replace our son we lost) we have hope and we are ready to try again. ❤️
You’ll know when you know. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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Sorry for your loss. I lost mine in November. I wanted to try again right away. I didn’t ever move past it even when I thought I did. I think the reason I wanted to try again right away was because I wanted to “fix” that I wasn’t pregnant anymore and I didn’t realize that until a couple months later. I cried when stuff I ordered arrived in the mail after my MC and still occasionally feel sad about it. I was upset when my first period came and then the next cycle came and so on. It’s been 3 cycles since my MC and honestly I thought I’d be one of those people that get pregnant right after because my first pregnancy produced a healthy child and I didn’t and I was mad. All the feelings you feel are normal and ok and you can try again ASAP or wait and you’re not wrong for either ❤️🌈

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I am sorry for your loss. Ive had 3. It took me months to feel ready ahain after our first and second loss. I think I am going to wait a whole year. I want to focus on my body and try to figure out what is wrong and what is causing my miscarriages. I know a year is such a long time but I am hoping to get healthier. Mybhusband doesnt want to try again ever.. so I know I need to give him time.

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I grieved for months and still felt bad when I wanted to try again... These feelings are normal no matter how long you wait.

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Sorry for your loss ❤️ don't feel bad - I knew I was going to try again as soon as I was healed. Doc recommended to try again after 2 cycles so I will try next month.

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