Just venting..

Today I was talking to a guy at work that asked me if I had children, so I responded as I typically do, “not yet” since there’s no reason for me to remind him we’ve already had a discussion about my two miscarriages. He then proceeds to tell me that I don’t want children, they are a pain in the ass and I should just enjoy my life now, midway through the conversation he remembered that we’ve talked about my miscarriages and then he says if I do want children it’s easy I just need to try and if I have another miscarriage it’s okay I can just try again. I don’t know if he’s just naive or optimistic, I wish it were that easy to get and stay pregnant.