Lack of sex drive due to pregnancy?

Question

I’m 27W3D and have not had a sex drive since like 20 ish weeks. I feel huge and fat and I don’t feel good about myself during sex, and I just don’t have the energy to have sex at all. I don’t ever really get in that kind of mood anymore.
Am I the only one? Has anybody else experience a low libido? Everything I’ve read said that normally libidos are high during this point in pregnancy.

Answer

Me and my husband have had sex maybe 4 times since I found out I was pregnant. I’m 25 weeks. I have zero desire. I am tired, cranky, and quite frankly sex hurts right now. He has been a trooper. I have no advice. I am honestly enjoying having a legitimate excuse and not just “I don’t feel like it.” 😂

Answer

I’m 20wks, i think we’ve had sex 4 times or something since I found out. I have zero sex drive - is what it is. Hes a trooper!

Answer

I completely lost my sex drive before my 2nd trimester of my first pregnancy. Kiddo is 21 months old now. I’m in my 2nd trimester of 2nd pregnancy now and my drive never returned. Not even before this pregnancy. It’s upsetting to me but I don’t know what to do about it. We have sex and I downplay how much I don’t feel like it so he’ll still enjoy it, but it’s really frustrating to me because I used to have a decently high libido. I feel like it’s a combo of hormones and exhaustion of motherhood.

Lack of sex drive due to pregnancy?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products