is not being sexually satisfied a reason to leave a relationship?

so me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months. absolutely love him to pieces, even when he’s a pain. unfortunately the sex just isn’t the firework leg shaking sex i want. i personally can’t orgasm from just sex, i need a hand or mouth (which he’s great at). idk i guess ive just had that amazing sex before and miss it. it’s like everytime i ask him about it turns into a fight or he just plays victim saying “oh i’m so sorry i don’t satisfy you” so i get frustrated and drop it. HELP. sorry about the rant 😂