I have my daughter throughout the week & her dad has her weekends. I’m very attached to my daughter to the point I’ll tear up when I start to miss her. Her dad on the other hand, goes the entire week without asking me a single thing about her. When he does contact me, it’s to vent about his issues or he’ll ask me about what I’m doing. She’s about to be 2 and I know when she misses him. She cries until I finally FaceTime him at times. I never go a night without telling her goodnight even on the nights he has her. Idk if I’m being dramatic but idk how someone could go days without asking how their child is doing or even talk to them. She’s a really vocal child and she understands what you tell her so it’s not like she’s still an infant in which that case, I’d understand his silence. We have a good relationship too, we go out as a family even though we’re not together. We give each other headaches but there’s no hate or grudges between us. I’ve known him for 10 years since he was 16, he was my first everything so it’s incredibly difficult for me to stay mad at him. I’m a bit of a pushover when it comes to him but lately I feel like I need to start putting him in his place. I’m financially stable so I never ask him for anything but the few occasions I have, he tells me he’ll send me money then completely ignores me until I become upset and tell him never mind. Thinking about this all is really starting to make me feel like I need to start acting less like his friend and more like the mother of his child.