I recently decided to post on reddit that I was looking for an online Dom to take away my control through TPE (total power exchange). I had a few negative experiences with some guys ghosting and breaking consent, but I think I finally found an amazing, perfectly matched Dom for me.

We have a ridiculous amount of things in common. We are both ex band geeks, don’t really enjoy music for entertainment, love Harry Potter, and are intellectuals at heart. He loves to read my writing and I love to hear about his schooling. I’ve shared my favourite book with him, which he devoured, and I just look forward to learning all about him.

I only know him as Sir. He has made the word so natural for me, which no other Dom had managed before. He was so sweet and gentle with me in our first few days. I felt spoiled, and at first I worried he wasn’t going to be harsh enough to engage my masochist side.

Oh boy was I wrong.

I think I woke up a part of him he never truly had the chance to explore. The joy he gets in seeing my reddened skin and painful expressions makes me want to be hurt even more; to be marked by him.

He can bring me into subspace so effortlessly that I wonder if he has a magic switch he flips. He turns me on so much that I’ve ruined a few sets of sheets.

I haven’t even heard his voice. I have only seen two PG photos of him. He does this all through text and text alone.

I look forward to the sweetness at the end of the night as we’re both getting ready to go to sleep.

Anyway, I just wanted to share my excitement. Meeting him is something we both hope for some day. I just know it’ll be electric!