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I experienced sexual abuse more than once and each time I was given the blame for it happening from everyone. “I was a tease” is one I get a lot or that I was leading them on and it’s really left very broken and worthless feeling. I vented to someone I shouldn’t have and it got out at school and now some people think I’m a whore and that I deserve and it the looks I get are awful. I really don’t know how to deal with it:/ thanks for listening:)

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It is not your fault. People think that how you dress and act give a reason for rape and sexual assault and they are 100% wrong no means no do not listen to them. It will destroy you. I’m only speaking from experience. If you have a councilor I highly suggest talking to one, might take a while to get comfortable but once you get comfortable they are like friends that can’t tell anyone what you say to them and it really does help. Do not let anyone tell you that you deserved it or it was your fault. It doesn’t matter what you were wearing or what you were doing or said that is not an accuse for rape or assault

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No one ever deserves to be hurt or abused. I’m sorry you are going through such a tough time with no support. None of what happened to you was your fault. You know the truth and it doesn’t matter what other people lie about. I pray you stay strong and try to reach out to a counselor or a possibly a group? Many women’s clinics have referrals to places that can help you and be supportive. 💜💜

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