So obviously no one on here will know the exact reason why this guy did me the way he did, but I wanna know if other girls have had the same experience & can shed some insight. My best guy friend and I hooked up when he was home, and once he left we talked and ft all the time. I was the hesitant one and he was all in. He’d talk about the future, said how he heard music every time he kissed me, and even sent me flowers. Literally the day I was ready to commit to him, he told me he thinks we should just remain friends because he wants to focus on his work, school, and relationship with god. He further explained that he was waiting for marriage (he wasn’t a virgin with me and had sex before me) and he lost it when he came back home so he really wants to focus on his religion and morals. He cont. to say that the more he thinks about it the more he regrets it...not me as a person but the fact that he lost it. He said that he’s just not ready for a committed relationship atm and “if things are meant to be they will be” when he’s home in a few years. I knew something was up for a few days prior as he didn’t call me like he usually did. We agreed to stay good friends like how we were before and tbh it’s been SO hard on me. We snap maybe 1-2 times a day but that’s it, but he’s told me day after day that he thinks our friendship is so important because I’ve just been so worried. I had to go back & kinda remind myself that we only snapped a few times a day before the hookup anyways. We only talked for 17 days but it felt like forever the way we were talking. I know he wasn’t talking to other women and I honestly really believe in what he told me. I trust this man with my life. I just don’t understand how he went from totally obsessed with us to “I think we should just be friends” in two days?? I literally want to turn back time and just freaking commit to him, but idk maybe it happened for a reason. Can anyone give me a little insight & encouragement???