I need help with Tinder (1st time)

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Betty

Ladies,

I got out of a 8 year relationship recently. I gave myself time to not date and just be happy with being alone. I finally started on tinder recently (two days ago). I need help! All these guys say “I’m just use to girls giving their number or texting me.” One dude has already asked for me to call or text him twice.

I’m flirty and I pay attention to a lot of the conversation. What I want to know how many of you out there actually give out their number and meet with them on only knowing them a day or two?

I’m 28 and never met anyone online. Did it once from MySpace and it was just weird. Help me out ladies!

*i live alone and very much new to the area so yes I have a reason to be cautious about places. Just wanna know if I’m being too cautious.

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Co

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Some people want to call to make sure the person is who they say they are. If you read online dating tips (especially for women) they recommend that.I am also new to online dating and am exploring how it works. So far I've only been on one date and we didn't exchange numbers until after. We chatted on tinder for about a week before meeting up and we met at a pool hall. Other than that one instance I haven't given out my number. I think it would really depend on how the conversation is going for when I would give my number. Most of the conversations fizzel out pretty quickly.

Jo

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My wife and I met online 4 years ago, when my wife discovered me, we chatted through the app, a week or so in I suggested we use the kik app for our communication and it was great, we didn't exchange our actual numbers for a month or so, and when we did meet I chose the mall, cause I knew there would be lots of people there, ultimately my wife really appreciated my caution and understanding, the internet is a big place you Can Find Your Soulmate. But you will also find a lot of lessons and (God forbid) a nightmare or two so be cautious.

Je

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I’ve only met one guy online. We chatted on Snapchat for two weeks exchanging pictures and texts. When I was comfortable, we met at a public place and I checked in with a friend a few times.