I have a baby girl who just turned one in January. My daughter is my mother in laws first grandbaby and she has only come to see my daughter the day she was born. My mother in law only lives about an hour away and she asked to visit twice over the entire time my daughter has been alive and both times she asked us 2 days before she wanted to visit and we had plans because she asked so last minute. She never even asks about her granddaughter and she was supposed to come to her birthday party that we planned months in advance but then suddenly had to work and never even wished my daughter a happy birthday or anything. I'm now due in July with our second daughter. Would it be wrong to not tell her when my c-section is scheduled with my next baby? I just feel like she hasn't even been able to make the time to come see her first granddaughter so why should I allow her to just come visit this baby the day she's born when she basically couldn't care less about her other granddaughter. Also in the 4.5 years my husband and I have been together we've only seen her about 4 times and 3 of those times we had to drive to visit her and one of those times was on Easter and she left us at her house alone for a bootycall. I guess if you were in my situation would you tell your MIL what day your csection was scheduled so she could come visit?