A year confused

So I’m totally new to this app but am in need of some unbiased opinions.

Anyway back to why I’m confused. About a yr ago I met this guy at work and we hit it off. First time I have ever experienced emotions of instant safeness and completeness. Everything was going great the only downfall was we were both in relationships and lived an hr and half away from each other. Time goes on and my now ex boyfriend finds out so I leave. Me and the guy are still seeing other than his now ex girlfriend found out about us. He than ghosts my ass for a month. Comes back almost a month later and professes his love. Things go good again until his ex takes their son to Florida, than he ghosts me again. About a month goes by and we are back to where we left off. Than he all of the sudden out of the blue ghosts me again and 2 months later back in my life. He has recently ghosted for the fourth time and the thing is he told me he loved me two nights prior and I was to meet his mom. He also gave his son my real name and put him on the phone with me. Anyway he recently contacted me on Snapchat last Saturday and we talked for an hr or so. All week he has been checking my snap stories and the snaps I send him. Than last night he removes me from Snapchat. I don’t understand why. What’s the point of wasting a yr of time on both our parts to play games? Did he mean everything he said? Was his profession of love a lie?