would you kick him out?
my stepbrother is 20 years old and doesnt have a job or go to school. all he does it go out all night and come home and sleep all day, then do it all over again. my mom is tired of the bullshit, and has been telling him he better get a job, and he claims to be trying, but he isnt. he had an interview with a job where he would be making $1000 a week (according to him) and my mom woke up at 5:30am to wake him up for the interview with the boss and he refused to get up. he is so lazy, it's ridiculous. he has his own room to sleep in, but it's absolutely disgusting with clothes everywhere, so he sleeps in the livingroom and leaves his shit everywhere. he stinks so bad, and makes the livingroom smell horrible. he just spent 2 hours in the bathroom so my mom finally went in and he was asleep. she tried to wake him up multiple times and he just kept going back to sleep, so she poured ice water on him. his mom doesnt have to live with him or put up with him, so she just gives him $200 every 2 weeks that he basically just uses for beer and cigarettes. i usually dont believe in kicking your kids out, but when they're doing absolutely nothing to better themselves and are just being lazy, it seems like it's just time. 😅 he also supposedly has a baby on the way with his ex girlfriend.
ps. im not posting this for me. my mom wants him to get a job or move out, but his dad just doesn't really do anything or take initiative to get him to get a job. most of the time when my mom brings it up, he just laughs it off.
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