I’m trying to plan my guest list for my wedding and my fiancé has this one cousin whose dating a girl that my fiancé has a past with and not only that but also when we were in high school, he cheated on me with. I truly hate her guts because she never apologized and if not make it worse every time she talked to me. She didn’t feel any remorse. Me and my fiancé broke up over it in high school and got back together and got very serious when we turned 18. Were now 20 and really ready to take this next step, but should I invite his cousin and let him bring her? I want my wedding to be magical and I can tell you that when I’m in the same room as her, I get so many negative feelings of anxiety and ugh. What do I do. Can I just not invite his cousin bc of his girlfriend? Is that petty?

Edit *** I know that If I forgave him , I should forgive her too. I tried, trust me. I’ve asked her to talk it out, everything she just told me no and that she doesn’t care. My bf has actively proven to me over the last 5 years that he is sorry and will never make that mistake again.