I just need to vent . Maybe some advice ?

Katelyn

So here’s how it starts , my husband is one of those “gamer” guys and he is almost always on his video games . I don’t mind that he plays when I’m gone at work or maybe even a while on the weekends which is the time we have together . I work until almost 11 at night and by that time he’s asleep , if anything I’ll catch him for about 10 minutes before he K.O’s. So the only real time I get to have with him is solely the weekend . Well recently he’s been hanging out with our close friend A (Male) and of course it’s on the weekends , it starts off just maybe a hour that they’re supposed to hang out but it’s been coming back to my place where they just play video games together all night long . So I tell my husband that I need some quality time with him .. well that didn’t go well , he tells me that he’ll spend time with me next weekend and that this shouldn’t be a big deal . I just feel like he puts his own personal wants above mine . He’s been inviting friends out a lot as if he doesn’t want to just be with me , and it’s really hurting me because I feel like I’m not enough for him . I constantly tell him that I want to go out and do things together or if we’re staying in (which is almost always what happens) if we could take a bath together and watch movies and make dinner together but it always ends up him being on his Video games for the day while not even acknowledging that I’m there . When we talk about it he just gets mad and doesn’t want to talk about it or tells me that he’s sorry and that we’ll spend some time together another day . I just keep feeling unwanted and I feel like I can’t talk to anybody about this.