I miss my husband

So, he’s been gone for 2 months(military) and just came back. Now he’s taking online classes and he’s always got his face in the computer. He barely helps around the house, mind you I also work full time, have 2 under 2, and take classes. So besides being totally exhausted I feel lonely. our sex life also sucks, because I feel disconnected from him lately. He’s trying the best he can and he isn’t as good at balancing it all as me, but damn I wish he could finish his work faster so he can pay attention to me a little bit.