I met a dom in real life!!! 😶🙃

LOL ok so I’ve read about a lot of the dom/sub relationships on this app and I’m like low (to medium) key about it but I haven’t tried to acquire a dom myself yet. Mostly because I literally have no idea where to find one.

Well, one kinda just dropped in my lap. I’m a receptionist/ cashier at a car dealership and one day I was just chilling at work... going about my day... minding my own beeswax... just chatting with some salespeople and this man comes out of the blue and straight up says “I’m a dom” (he obviously elaborates I’m just trying to keep it short). Me, in my head, I was like “oooohhhh SHIT okkkurrr this man might be my way in.” All my coworker friends are like “omg so weird what is a dom lol you like tie people up” (pls read that in the snobbiest most white girl way you’re able to) 🙄 Meanwhile, I’m over here swimming in my panties!!

Okay but here’s the kicker.... he’s married. He says that he’s in an open marriage so he can still continue his lifestyle but honestly I don’t know if I’m comfortable with fucking a married man, “open relationship” or not.

Soo how do i open up that conversation with him? Here’s what I have so far:

“Hello please dominate me”

“Hola coworker, would you like to go to pound town?”

“I’m diggity down if you are”

Ugh I’m such an awkward person 😅 pls help

UPDATE:

YALL YALL YALL!!!!! I met the fucking wife today. She came in to get her car serviced and I’m the cashier so I took her payment and whatnot. She ain’t cute. 😅 I’ve seen pictures of her before (bc I obviously Facebook stalked him....duh) so I knew what to expect but shit, she’s worse in person. I know it’s terrible to say and I’m really not a bitch I’m all for women empowerment but honestly he could do so much better. ANOTHER THING she’s fucking pregnant!!! She’s pregnant. Pregnant. Like very pregnant. Muy preggos.

I may be extremely overthinking this.... but... what if.... he brought her in on purpose to see if I’m worthy... is that a thing?! Lol I’m so uneducated on this whole dom/sub thing. Ya girl needs help.