Am I overthinking?

Question

I have a new guy I just recently started dating he always gives me tips about what I should do during sex asks me why I don't do certain things, but I just do what comes naturally to me. I even said "so you want me to put on a show" and he said yes. Part of me is like okay everybody likes different things that's what he likes oh well do it, but another part of me is like why am I not good enough now? Does he not enjoy sex with me, why not? And get kind of offended like why aren't you just happy to be with me like idk. Any thoughts?

Answer

Stop getting offended. Everyone is different and I doubt it's because he's not enjoying sex with you, he just knows what he likes and is letting you know. You should do the same, there is nothing wrong with knowing what you want and being vocal with your partner about it. If it really bothers you, sit down and talk to him about it. 🙂

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Telling you what he likes as in physically is one thing.... telling you how to act or respond is another. This kind has me thinking he’s trying to make porn real and maybe has an addiction.

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I'd love it if my boyfriend let me know/guided me as to what he likes during sex. I wouldn't be offended if I were you. He's just letting you know what he's into. He's not telling you that you suck or anything. Everyone has their own preference for things. Wouldn't you let him know what you were into too?

Am I overthinking?

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