Baby dreams definitely offically over, I never thought this would happen.

Well my dreams of giving my wonderful man a child of his own are over. I'm scheduled for a total hysterectomy in less than a month. I'm more concerned for him not becoming a father. He does look at my children like they were his own but I know its not the same. My emotions are so mixed and I feel numb. I'm only 35! I'm nervous about being plunged into menopause. I'm terrified of the recovery. Just having some cysts removed took almost a month to heal from. I'm spinning ladies help me!