I’m so over other mothers constantly telling me my life is over. I’m sick to death of them saying this like “enjoy the lazy days” “trips out, not anymore” “you have all this to come”etc etc. I’m not stupid I know babies are hard work but so was getting pregnant. Three years of month to month heartache, my hope dying with every period and negative test. My soul beginning destroyed with every miscarriage. Not to mention the whole nearly dying and having to have bits of my body removed. Why do people feel the need to do this!!!!