UPDATE ADDED 🚨 My husband has a psycho ex

Ladies I need your help.

My husband's ex has serious issues, we've been married for nearly 4 years and she can't let him go.

So from the start- my husband and I actually met through my ex. When my now husband broke up with this girl we all moved into together. When our lease was up we went our seperate ways including my boyfriend and I. My husband and I stayed in some contact since he helped me through that abusive relationship. But I stopped talking to him because I just needed time to myself to find me again pretty much.

About 3 months later I found out he had joined the army, and I knew it was a dream of his so I messaged him on Facebook congratulating him. From the message on we have been inseparable. He came home for a week from bootcamp and we spent every single.day together and that's when we got married.

As soon as I moved with him that's when some problems started coming up. His ex messaged me telling me how he's not over her, that he was talking to her the whole time he was in bootcamp, she was suppose to go to his graduation everything. And how he needs to change his address because she was still getting his mail from when they lived together nearly 2-3 years ago at this point. So of course problems hit the fan with her and I.

Well I found his old phone one day that he had in bootcamp and read his messages then. He was talking dirty to this girl. Telling her about the old ways they had sex. So now I knew. When I confronted him he lied about it. To this day he still denies it. He says it some of the guys fucking with him and doing it on their own. Riiight.

She messages me again about the mail issue and has the nerve to tell me that they are common law married 🤣 I just blocked her.

My husband gets out of the army, we move back to our home town. And we run into her at a steak house. At this point we have been married for 2 years and I'm pregnant. His ex has a baby with her, and a new dude. I got pissed that night because we were sat in the same area and my husband kept looking over at her table. I confronted him about this and he said he didn't mean to blah blah.

A year and half go by, she messages him on Facebook which I thought he had blocked her cause that's what he told me. Anyways she messaged him about the dogs they use to have together that she still has. She tried telling him he needs to take them. Apparently he never wrote back. Which idk if is true not. I don't go through his phone.

Well today he tells me how she knows where he works. Supposedly her new guy shes been with sees my husband quite a bit because they kind of work in the same field so they cross paths. My husband apparently knows who he is. And knows this. But he went up to one of my husbands coworkers and asked if that was for sure him and that he use to be with his girl and she told him he works for that company. Well of course the coworker told my husband. Now I'm just so dumb founded. Like wtf is actually going on. Idk how she would know, he doesn't have it on his Facebook, and according to my husband she's blocked so she shouldn't see it anyways?? She's blocked on my end. So the only thing I can think of is he's lying, his family is talking to her, or she's even more crazier than I thought.

Ugh. What would you do in this situation?? I'm so lost. I'm not trying to think the worse but my gut is kinda telling me something.

🚨🚨For everyone who is saying she's not physco, she is. I obviously didn't go into detail of EVERYTHING and everything she has done. I just did some of the stuff that really sticks out. But trust me this chick needs help. I mean I'm not saying my husband couldn't be lying or sticking up for him. It does seem fishy. But I also know how this girl truly is which is why I'm so torn on what's real or not. I also know my husband did have her blocked at one point.

UPDATE:

Well for all of you who were saying it's my husband, and she's not psycho. I can confirm that it is NOT him, and that she is still up to no good 4 years later. He came home and we talked about it more in depth. He showed me all the messages between them. And then messaged her boyfriend asking why he was asking about him. He said he just looked familiar and so and so found out through someone that he was working for this company so he just asked. My husband DID have her blocked. We found out she created a facebook profile to message him about the dogs, and then she changed the name 🙃