Refuses to get me wet

I don't know what to do anymore. He asks to put it in when neither of us have done anything to each other, I ask him to get me wet and he puts his dick up. That's how it's gone the past few times, the past serveral months he puts lube on it and puts it in. I've been talking about wanting to get wet b4 hand for a long time. The past couple of times i refused to have sex he got upset said I was being like a child throwing a fit and not giving up until I get my way...WTF!