Doesn’t feel like my baby *long read/rant

Ever since I’ve gotten pregnant my mother in law has just been so overbearing with everything. It’s gotten to the point where this baby doesn’t even feel like she’s mine. I feel like I’m sharing her with my mother in-law and I absolutely hate it. She’s never had a daughter and she’s always wanted one so I can understand her being happy that I’m having a girl. I feel like when she’s actually here it’ll just get worse and I just get a strong feeling that she will try to treat my daughter like she’s hers. My boyfriend has already talked to her about this a couple months ago and she said she won’t be overbearing or try to tell me what I should do but so far that hasn’t been the case. She recently asked if I’m gonna use formula and I said no that I’m gonna be exclusively breastfeeding for a bit and she said no that’s it’s better for me and everyone if I give her formula since that’s what she did with her first kid. When we went to buy the crib that same day me and my bf chose one that we liked but I’m positive that she didn’t like it since she kept trying to persuade us to look at the one that she liked better by saying things like “come look at this one” “this one looks better” and other stuff. She wants to decorate the crib the way she wants. Her culture does this thing where when a baby is born they throw a party a couple days after the mom comes from the hospital and she asked if we wanted one but me and my bf declined and that made her mad because it was gonna be so soon after I had the baby and I’ve never really been a big fan of parties. One more thing is that during our gender reveal after the pink balloons came out she ran to us and started crying saying that “WE did it” and me and my bf were confused so he corrected her but she kept saying “we did it” but we just brushed it off and soon after that she started calling my baby “her” baby. By rubbing my stomach and sometimes saying “mi nina” or she would just randomly start talking about the baby but she would say “my baby”. Sorry if this was long and I probably went off topic a lot but this has been on my mind for the past couple of months and hit my due date in a week so I’m just getting more nervous about how everything’s gonna be.