Me time?

So we have a 2-1/2 year old and a baby on the way I have either been working or taking care of my kid since day one, every time there is time for my self or just time for my husband and I we never get to or have his family blowing up our phones to where we still don’t enjoy us time!

This has been this way since she was born, I understand completely about being a parent means that alone time comes far apart and rare but we haven’t got to just enjoy ourselves in well over 2-1/2 years. We give plenty of notice and make sure it works with their schedule and have been blown off so many times.

Well anyway how do you get time together or alone, what tips can you give me, and what can you do in less then a hour for a date night since that will more then likely be as long as we will get!

Rude comments not wanted as everyone has their opinions and mine is everyone deserves to have a little down time once in awhile without being bothered.