Should I visit or not a big deal?

Ok long story short. When I was 7 mos pregnant my bro in law from my husbands side announced there pregnancy after 9 yrs of marriage (don’t think she wanted kids) anywho I got super sick at 36 in a half weeks and husband and I were supposed to have breakfast with them but I wasn’t feeling to good so I checked myself into the hospital that Sunday and my sis in law texted me to see how I was doing and me I said well I was in the hospital so she naturally told her husband and everything escalated and everyone showed up at the hospital and I didn’t end up getting a c section until that Tuesday. Well after that they showed up to the hospital to see my son in NICU and me well I was also in ICU I was all messed up. Husbands bro and sis saw our son that was it. We went home then everyone else came after. My question is now our son is 6 mos and there inviting everyone to the hospital to visit. Am I wrong for not wanting to go since there’s a lot of sickness and all? Or should I go with husband and son?