Any advice ?

Question

I know this seems a bit “crazy” and I might get negative comments. 
I’ve known my boyfriend for about 4 years (freshman year no not from school) we have a year and a couple of months together. 
We are planing on living together after I turn 18 which is on August 17 ( do I have any birthday twinsss ?)  My parents don’t like him because he’s “poor” not really but he lives in the south and I was raised over there but moved north, I don’t consider myself as rich I think I’m living average. I have a roof to sleep under, there’s always food on the table, and if my parents can afford things I want I get them not alway but yeah... and he has it all too except his family struggle a bit with money anywayssss (I’m really trying to paint the picture here) 
So how I said they don’t like him because he can’t offer me much but let me say I AM HAPPY genuinely I am and no I’m not the type of girl that asks for gift or whatever I appreciate whatever I get even if it’s something little. 
So how I was saying when I turn 18 I’m supposed to go live with him. His mom LOVES me. 
His parents and him (he’s 18 btw turns 19 on August 10)  are making a room for us and they wanna get it done before summer starts because his family leave to Cali. I thought it was cute how his family supports us in something like this. 
** update for those who ask if I plan on getting a job or if he works, he currently has 2 jobs and as in for me I am a lash technician I am certified but I do plan on getting a job once I move out and do lashes too 
So no I don’t plan on depending on his family... 😕
If I’m making this post it’s because I want advice since I’m gonna actually gonna be living with him or whatever y’all wanna share with me, maybe your story/situation 🙁💗

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Advice- moving in with a new boyfriend parents is a recipe for disaster.
If you're serious about this relationship then you need to do it right and not move in together until you can support yourselves all on your own. Getting your cart before your horse is how relationships crash and burn.
Good luck.

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Eventually, in any relationship, you’re not always freshly waxed, shaved, plucked, made up to the 9s, etc. that’s normal. I don’t think that’s real point of your post though. 
Here’s the rip.... and you said it yourself...it’s your parents who put the roof over your head, the food on the table, and buy you things. Who’s going to do that when you move out? His parents? Are you expecting your parents to still pay for you? Do you plan on getting a job to support yourself? Because it sounds like you’re setting up to play house while his parents are out of town which is where your parent’s concern probably stems from; not that his family doesn’t live as comfortably as yours does.

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I think its great that his family is doing all that for you. Im happy they are being supportive of your relationship and i think its not such a bad idea however this is a hugeee step and be aware you guys will spend alot of time together and will eventually get annoyed with each other and have arguments so its important to build a relationship where communication is important, ask him his expectations for you living with him. Also since you are living in their house make sure your helping out around the home as much as you can help out with bills whenever you can maintain a good relationship with his family and respect them. If you can handle living together youll know whether or not your ready for the next step

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