:( if it ain’t one thing...it’s another

The first I had sex, I got a uti for not peeing after sex. I went to the doctors, got checked while there, they said that they were gonna call me if there was anything abnormal. They never called me. After taking the antibiotics, everything felt normal again. I had sex again, and even one time the person kind of slipped it in without a condom (I ALWAYS USE CONDOMS. I was just waking up from sleep when they did) and like a week later I was having uti symptoms kinda. Except there was no urge to pee, and it only came when I held in my pee for too long. It stopped but I had sex again and like 2 days later.. it started again. Honestly I don’t really pee after sex, I wait for like a good hour cause I’m too lazy to actually get up and pee. It also doesn’t help that because I am new to sex and my partner is big, I tend to bleed some afterwards which most likely adds to the bacteria. I know some women are just prone to UTIs but I really hate this. It’s very inconsistent too. One minute it feels like I have one but the next everything is normal.

Update : I called them today to make an appointment and I also asked them for my results from my first STD test. They came back negative.