My aunt is a recovering meth addict. She's been cleaning my parents house for them and she's a really hard worker. It's obvious she's still clean.

Well because she's working so hard my dad just asked her if she was "tweaked". It obviously upset her that he asked and he continued to ask and say that if she was she wasn't allowed over here ever again.

I just thought it was really rude to ask someone who is obviously trying and who is obviously sober if they're "tweaked"