Ok ladies!! 😀Help me out!!

Hello!! I have so many questions and I'm hoping you all can help me out!! This may be long, sorry!!!

I'm 34+1 I'm dilated to a 1 😲 any one else already dilated? I stayed at a 2 with my first for 2 weeks before I went in to labor.

Where can I find whitch hazel pads at? Are they the same as hemorrhoid "pads"?

They give you a spay at the hospital to use on your hooha... I can't remember what its called. Where can I get that at?

Is anyone taking their own laxatives to the hospital? If so which kind?

Yes this is my second baby, but I don't want to be charged out the a** for things I can bring to the hospital myself🤗

Thank you guys!!!