A person made me pinky swear I would never cut him off my life and it was creepy.

I don’t like making promises because I know I can fail.

I don’t know where life will take me. I like low maintainance friends that don’t need to talk 24/7 (I have a very busy schedule). The more you reach out to me insisting on talking, the more I draw myself away from you. He constantly texts me every day and it turned out to be annoying.

He also touched my butt without my consent. I have guy friends whom I allowed to grab it, but not him. And it’s not like we’ve all hung out together that he would see them and think it was ok for him to do it as well.

Why I haven’t been cleared about this? Because he’s the type of person who would get offended by this and talk shit about me. Because he talked shit about other “friends” that did the same to him. So I opted to slowly cut him off. It’s like “dude, please get the message, I don’t want to be involved with you anymore”.

Also, the pinky promise... he kinda cornered me in a store and looked me so serious “promise me you will never cut me off your life”. I’m fucking 26, I don’t need to be making pinky promises. I’ve made promises before where I failed and felt or made felt like shit. I’m not up for it anymore.