What are your thoughts as a wife?

Marta

So I've only been married about a year and a half.

Plot:

Husband transfers money from my account to eat while on the road( no problem)

The dilemma:

Gets paid and says I'm going to put back what i took.

I asked him is he getting the money as a loan to pay it back or what?

His answer as a loan

Am i missing something here? I just don't understand. I thought and we agreed it's both our money.