Sex for newlyweds

My husband and I worked hard during our courtship to keep our physicality limited until we were married.

We are having a little more trouble than anticipated in sex. I find him SO attractive yet I can’t get myself turned on in the moment. I’m afraid this is making him feel inadequate when he’s everything but.

We end up laughing about it usually but after a while I can’t see how it wouldn’t get in our heads a bit.

We both are not virgins so we have been able to make things work pleasure wise before...