This might be a long post. I just need to rant.

My brother who is almost two years older is a Marine. Him and his girlfriend of two ish years were living together until she broke up with him in the middle of January. He needed a place to crash for a few nights until he could move his stuff to my brother in laws house so he could stay in their trailer. Well that never happened. It's now the 12th of April and he's still here. I was more than happy to have him with me for a FEW nights and didn't mind doing the extra work to clean up after him. It's now been a few months and I'm still cleaning up his mess. I ask him to take out the trash and he tells me that I make most of it so I should. Keep in mind, I made MAYBE a bag of trash A MONTH before he moved in, I now take out one EVERY WEEK. All he does is sit on my couch and watch movies literally all day. I'm lucky if he washes my frying pan that only he uses at the moment. He's now burned my pan beyond repair and claims that its "just dirty". He leaves the stove on high from the time he leaves at 2am to the time he gets home around 12. And I work from 8 to 5 so i never notice that its burning.

I'm at wits end right now. He wont replace my pan, he doesn't clean up after himself, he doesn't do his dishes at all so I have to do them all before I can even think about food, he doesn't take out the trash or recycling. I really dont know what to do anymore except wait for him to move out.

I'd love to hear any suggestions you may have