MIL Having To Many Expectations.

I would just like to rant and vent how I think for now my mil has too many expectations. So back story is I just had surgery April 3 and still quite sore. But it's that I think she is pushing me too far. It's that I had abdominal surgery and of course it hurts like hell when I cough and then she told me since we are trying to pack and move stop holding my stomach when I cough etc and but I think I did damn well helping hubby to be get a couch upstairs of what I could do. And then he was trying to put the door on he asked if I could but then I realized I couldn't lift the door and I asked for help she said you could of done it. But thanks to his step dad not feeling well to help me. It's like DAMN, at least I've been doing shit that I know I wouldn't be in excruciating pain.