I’m a young woman on a large campus. I am involved in 2 organizations and am on the royal court for one. I make sure I look decent if not amazing on a regular basis at a school. I don’t understand why attractive men don’t just come up to me. I’ve had one hookup that I initiated. And one guy rn after posting on a forum. Many women have stories of being randomly asked out so I’m confused why it’s not happening to me. While I’m no saint , overall I have a great personality.

If you don’t have anything nice to say , scroll by. I lived so much of my life feeling bad about myself. So I don’t want to hear anything about being cocky.