Help me - should I test?

Im really anxious about testing because I really don’t want to see a BFN. I have stayed away from pregnancy test completely. I had slight spotting 10dpo and I also had a temperature rise. I was supposed to start my period today, nothing but my temp dipped. I’ve been tempting for just a few months but we’ve been ttc for a good year already. Based on this anyone relate? Or know how to read? I may test in a few days if af doesn’t visit. Hopefully it doesn’t.