He’s a sub, but I’m into doms...

Jenna

So basically this guy I really like and I were having a conversation about having sex in the future. He told me, “Having a girl tie me up and have her way with me would be something I really want to try.” And after thinking for a bit, I told him “I prefer it when guys are more dominant”. And then he said, “I prefer being submissive because I’m afraid of like, being mean to the girl or hurting her.”

I love everything about him and I would even move countries for him if I had the chance, so I really don’t know what to do. He’s literally one of the most perfect guys I’ve ever met, but I am really not into subs basically at all. I don’t know what I should do: should I try to change him or should I just get over him? I really can’t see myself being a dom pretty much ever.

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