What to do ? What do guys prefer ? HELP please read description

So currently my husband and I have had problems and long strong short he says he acts bad with me and didn’t show love because he’s tired of me telling him all the time/ taking about our problems and that he will be better and act different if we don’t talk too much about it , on the other side idk if I should keep trying to talk to him or just don’t say anything and stay quite and wait for him to notice how sad I am and wait for him to talk to me or see if he changes .... what do you think will let my husband realize how bad I feel because all of the problems

Option 1: keep talking about our problems until he understands

Option 2: just don’t say anything stay quiet and act more serious with him

So he notices it