What do I do..

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I've found out my partner is using snapchat to chat with a couple of girls. They're flirty texts. I can see them because I got suspicious of him getting messages and kinda facing the phone away from me. So I looked at the snapchat on his phone and he has it set so some messages dont disappear for 24hrs.
I dont know how to approach this. As I don't want to be like yeah I looked through your phone. I really hate drama confrontation and arguments.
We've been together almost 2yrs, live together and have a 4month old.

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I would just be upfront. He was acting shady and you were justified to look at his phone imo. While you might not have been right for going through his phone, it sounds like you had a good reason to be worried

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Same thing happened to me not to long ago and I ended up texting the girl come to find out that it wasn’t just flirty messages on Snapchat that they actually met up because he kept asking her to go get a drink with him so she ends up going and she told me they kissed! I was so heated but when I actually told him he tried to deny all of it and at that point I was glad I looked I listened to my gut and it was right! At that point I really could care less if he was mad at me for looking through his phone! And I know how you feel exactly because I’m totally not the type to snoop and I absolutely HATE confrontation but this needed to happen and what I did to get my proof was take a picture of his phone with my phone so I still have all the evidence I needed stored in my phone😉 just a tip!! good lucky girly!!

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Just be honest, there really isn't an easy way to go about it... Unless you manage to get proof to back you up so he can't deny his actions.

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I would ask him to go through his phone, peep his response, and then flip out the evidence

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I think you have more of a reason to justify being mad than he does. I think everyone deserves privacy but in this case he was the one doing wrong. And if you don’t tell him you saw it then he’s not going to stop doing it, so you have to.

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I agree. Be honest. He’s gonna be mad but it’s not going to be because you went thru his phone (even tho he will say that’s why he’s mad) it’ll be because he got caught doing something wrong. My ex did this exact thing. He would get random kissy face 😘 emojis from this girl who was “just a friend “. Like no dude your female friends shouldn’t be sending you kissy face, flirty texts, or hiding anything when you’re in a relationship and when that female knows you’re in a relationship. Confront him. If it helps text him about it first. Texting a difficult confrontational approach always helps me. OR what I did. Try to go thru his phone again, screen shot the messages and send them to yourself. That way the females see their flirty conversations have clearly been saved permanently and now he knows you know without you having to say something first.

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