I need baby daddy advice!!

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My daughter is 2 weeks old. Me and her father aren't together however we agreed for the first month he could stay with me to make things less stressful on eachother.

Her father works monday-friday until 3. since our daughter has been here he has been coming home everyday at 6. when he comes home hes always stoned, and proceeds to smoke more later in the evening. hes so high he falls asleep and wont wake up for the rest of the night, no matter how loud she cries. if i ever try to wake him up I literally get yelled & cussed at. he went out to the club with freinds & didnt come home until 4 in the morning.

I asked him to take our daughter once so I could have some time alone with freinds. As soon as I left he dropped the baby off at his moms and went to his friends house, then drove home with the baby stoned off his ass, and he texted me every 15 minutes complaining about me leaving.

I really dont know what to do at this point. I really dont want to get courts involved. I dont want to take her away from her father, but I cant deal with him being around any longer. I'm perfectly capable of doing this alone, I practically have been from the start. but i know as soon as I ask him to leave its going to be an argument. our original agreement was 50/50 custody but Im so worried now. He cant even wake up at night when she cries. I know that when its his time with her hes going to leave her with his mom majority of the time. he refuses to be alone with her, and barely spends time with her when he is home.

when he is with her hes so mean. when she cries he says things like "what the fuck is your problem? youre just like your mom, ways whining?" and he mocks her crying.

I know the only reason hes still around is because he knows how bad it will look to his family if he just leaves. it would honestly be so much easier for him to just walk away. I dont want to be the reason her dads not around but i dont know what to do at this point.