Am I wrong?🤷🏼‍♀️

So, me and my boyfriend live together & we have 2 dogs. My border collie is 11 & totally antisocial. We rehomed our french bulldog in July of last year, it took AGES to get the 2 of them used to each other, they are now the best of friends but flossy is still totally antisocial with other dogs.

So, one of my friends, we used to be really close but we drifted & have just started talking again. She rehomed a dog yesterday that she got off somebody she didn’t know & equally knows nothing about the dog. The day she went to meet him was the day she took him home.

Now, I’ve been very supportive and said I’ll help where needed. My friend & her boyfriend are supposed to be coming to our house tomorrow as her boyfriend is buying some stuff off my boyfriend. And we were chatting tonight and she said she didn’t know if she was coming and I said how come & she said her new dog had messed all over her friends house. And I was kinda like well what’s that got to do with you coming or not & she was like “well I don’t want him to poo all over your house”..... so I was like erm well you can’t bring him here anyway & she got really shit and was like well why not... & I said because she knew how bad my border collie was when we rehomed our frenchie & I’m not locking her away in her own home & I would hate for her to snap at her dog, which I can almost 100% guarantee she would because she’s grumpy like that. And she started saying how I was being nasty for not letting her bring him etc. And I was like well you can’t just expect to turn up at someone elses house without even asking if you can bring the dog.... you just don’t do that and I would never take my dogs anywhere without checking first as a lot of people wouldn’t like it.

She started shouting saying how she wouldn’t be coming tomorrow or again if she can’t bring the dog because she isn’t leaving him on his own. And I was just like well okay, but you can’t just take your dog to other people’s houses without asking but whatever....

I spoke to my mum afterwards & she said it’s cheeky and she shouldn’t even think about bringing the dog without asking, whether I had my own dogs or not🤷🏼‍♀️

Just wondering, am I in the wrong for telling her no she can’t bring her dog? Or is she in the wrong for just assuming she can bring him?🤷🏼‍♀️